Thursday, August 31, 2017

What's in your baby bag?

               


               A while ago a friend suggested I write a blog post about what I carry around in my baby bag, so I finally got around to doing so! While there are so many options of baby bags to choose from, it all really comes down to personal preference and practicality. With my first baby, I chose a pretty simple baby bag that I bought from Target, and it matched my stroller. What I loved about it was how spacious it was inside and the compartments were placed in convenient places. With my second, I knew I needed something even more spacious, so after some research I purchased this Graco backpack: (link). I really loved the idea of having a hands-free bag, and it has two large sections (one for each kid). The backpack was also something my husband wasn’t embarrassed carrying around.

                However, this post isn’t to talk about the actual bag, it’s what’s inside that matters! Like a lot of first time moms, I used to over pack every time I would leave the house. It’s like that LUVS commercial, when every mom becomes an expert by their second kid (I hope). But, after a while, the weight of my baby bag became too heavy, as it was no easy task to hold a carrier with baby and a weighty baby bag.

So for you new moms who are possibly looking for what you should pack in your baby bag, here are some of my baby bag essentials aside from the obvious milk, diapers and wipes:

1. An extra change of clothes and socks- you just never know when you’re going to need these. I still always have an extra change of clothes for my daughter in the trunk of my car in case I need it. When my daughter was less than a year accidents included but were not limited to: explosive diaper accidents, spit ups, and feeding accidents that would stain her pajamas. SO, it’s always good to have an extra change of clothes.

2. Hand sanitizer and/or sanitizing wipes- As part of a large gift basket I received, in it was this organic hand sanitizer that is alcohol free. Because the bottle was so big, I bought a spray travel size bottle from the dollar section at Target and just refilled it when necessary. I took it everywhere with me when my baby was able to sit up on her own and crawl. It came in handy at restaurants, after play dates, shopping, long car rides, etc. I also pack a bunch of Clorox wipes in a ziplock bag, just in case I need to wipe down the stroller, car seat or any other surface that I feel may need to be cleaned.

3. A roll of small garbage bags- I have seen these sold at a lot of baby stores. I bought mine from Family Dollar for $1 per two rolls, and they’re scented! These are useful when you need to change a diaper at someone’s house or out shopping. It’s just good to consider avoiding stinking up someone’s garbage with a soiled diaper.

4. Pain Medicine- When my daughter was teething, she would often get irritable and when I could tell if she was in pain, it always helped me to carry around children’s Tylenol or Motrin.

5. Teethers/light, wipeable toys- If you want to keep your child distracted while you’re out, I find it beneficial to take toys that can easily be sanitized in case they fall on the floor or other kids get their hands (and mouths) on them.

6. Pacifier holder- So this may be a given to many of us moms is to carry around a pacifier in our baby bag. But, I bought this pacifier holder specifically for my pacifier and it just helped me keep it from going missing when I needed it most. My daughter only takes the pacifier when she sleeps, so it helped when I needed her to nap while I was out.

7. Snacks/fruit: Sometimes it’s always good to keep your baby distracted and calm, especially when you’re doing things that demand your attention like… grocery shopping. Sometimes a small bag of grapes, cheerios, or apples may do the trick. But, of course, be cautious of choking hazards!

8. Bandages: These are important to have especially when your child starts walking. Trips and falls are going to happen, and those knees and elbows may get scraped so it’s best to be prepared and have some bandages on hand.

9. Nursing cover for those who nurse: I always pack a nursing cover with me so that I am able to nurse my comfortably anywhere.

Summer essentials:
1. Diaper rash cream- You can also categorize this under the essentials (year round), but I found that I needed it most during the summer time and when it was hot out. The heat often brings on rashes, so it’s important to stay prepared so your baby’s soft skin isn’t irritated.

2. Insect repellent- To be completely honest, I don’t know if this was the reason my daughter didn’t get mosquito bites, but I would carry this organic insect repellent around with me during hot summer nights.

3. Sunscreen- I always had sunscreen in my baby bag. Especially if I knew I was going to be outside all day, or even before going out for a walk. I felt the need to always do whatever I could to protect her skin from the sun.


Each child may have their own needs that must be added to my list, but these are things that you would likely find in my baby bag. If there is anything that you feel is a must have in a mom’s baby bag feel free to add on to the conversation and comment below! Your feedback is always welcomed J

Saturday, May 13, 2017

Product I love: The NoseFrida Snot Sucker

Calling all moms and moms to be: stop whatever you’re doing and go purchase the NoseFrida snot sucker! Add this to the product I love list, actually no, product I’m obsessed with list. Actually, add this to the product I wish I invented and would love to meet the inventor because it’s that amazing list.



How did I not know about this product? My son recently got sick, and it’s so heartbreaking hearing his little nose congested. I have been trying to find him relief by using a humidifier, locking myself in the bathroom hoping the steam from the hot shower helps loosen the mucus in his system, and holding him upright for as long as possible. But, the absolute worst thing for me to do was attempt to suction out his boogers (I hate the word ‘snot’, so let’s just say boogers). A friend of mine, whose daughter had acid reflux early on as an infant, recommended the NoseFrida as a means to clear up the  congestion so that baby can breathe again. Desperate to find something to help my little guy, I immediately headed over to Amazon and found that it was at a reasonable price.

How it works is kind of strange, and may sound disgusting, but I assure you it’s not. It’s simply a tube with two ends: one for sucking out the boogers, and the other that is placed at the tip of your baby’s nostril. Don’t worry, you will not taste any boogers. You simply just suck them out and they stay in a tube with a filter. This thing has worked wonders for me, and has helped clear up my son’s nose so much so that he has slept much better with his cold since I bought it 

As any mom knows, it’s so hard when your baby gets sick as an infant because we’re extremely limited on what we can give them. And, I was told that this cold/cough can last up to two weeks. If I had to use that god forsaken blue bulb given to me at the hospital to suction out my son’s nose one more time I may have a nervous breakdown. My son hated it! And I hated doing it to him.
For all those who don’t know about this product here’s the link:NoseFrida


You’re welcome.

Thursday, February 9, 2017

The pains of hijabi shopping

                There was a time –maybe about 20 years ago—when appropriate hijab fashion was much harder to find. Now-a-days, hijab fashion is easily accessible to us through the internet and various boutiques, especially in and around the city of Dearborn. But, make no mistake about it; while we (hijabis) are lucky enough to have these options available, the struggle is still real at some of our favorite world popular retail clothing stores. The H&M’s, the Zara’s, the Banana Republics, all of which are my favorites, but it’s not easy finding a blouse that doesn’t require some sort layering.

 Yesterday night I couldn’t sleep —mainly because my stomach is getting bigger and it’s much harder to get comfortable. So I laid in bed and started randomly surfing through the ASOS store app on my phone. ASOS has become another one of my favorite online shops, and it has such a wide variety of clothes. As I directed towards the 70 percent off sale link, I found a number of clothing items that just made me want to cry. Why? Because they could have been, should have been, and would have been so great if they aligned with my Islamic dress code. So, I decided to take some screenshots and share with you what it’s really like to be shopping as a hijabi and some of the agony that one endures during the task.

The dreaded split:

You find a dress, and it’s got the most perfect, subtle print.


Ahh, yes…you’re already imagining to what event you will be wearing this lovely number to. 


Then you scroll to the final angle image. Here you experience the jab to your rib cage. Sorry, not sorry ASOS says. You may have found the perfect dress, except for it has a slit that, even if sewed closed, might be too tight around the legs to walk in. You’re saddened.




Don’t Turn Around: 

OR…you find this perfect dress for an occasion (i.e- a family wedding, an engagement party).  You think it’s complete as it is long sleeve, floor length, and the color isn’t so obnoxious.



Then, the model turns around, and you realize the open back that is as wide as when Moses split the sea. You start to wonder how you can make it work. You realize you can’t, you accept defeat and move on to the next.





The “I-will-probably-never-find –the-perfect-color-to-go-underneath-this-so-that-it-is-all-lined” long sleeved lace dress:

Speaks for itself.




There are many things in life we hoped were longer--like vacations, the money in our bank accounts, Obama's presidency, and for hijabis: dresses, skirts, pants and sleeves: 

I cannot tell you how many times I’ve come across dresses like this. Perfect colors, long sleeve, and then it just abruptly stops me mid-mind sentence as I notice it’s tea-length. WHYYYYYY?? And, I’m sure I’m not the only one who looks at the price and wonders if it’s reasonable enough to buy two of the same, and have a seamstress make it longer before realizing it’s not worth it and reluctantly moving on.




Culottes (about knee length or longer trousers) are super in right now. But, they also give me some anxiety because like this pair… it would have made me so much happier if they were longer.




No silver lining here... 

While there are several ways to make these items work as a hijabi, for example, wearing a matching slip underneath, or having a seamstress sew a new lining for you; truth be told it’s just an added inconvenience. You find a pretty skirt or dress and realize you can see through it like looking through the windows to your now crushed soul. It’s half-lined, and you sigh and start to argue with yourself “could I find this exact fabric at the fabric store? Is the print of the skirt really worth it? Can I not find anything like it?”




The ¾ sleeve: 

This one is one I particularly hate. For example, look at this perfectly long lined tunic. It’s not too fitted and perfectly appropriate for modest dress. Except you look at the sleeves and you instantly hate the maker of this piece for not making them longer. Would it look nice with a long-sleeve shirt under? Likely No. Move on.



Look at this lace top that would match up elegantly with a long flowing skirt, or wide leg pants. But, noooooo … to make this work, we would have to wear a longer sleeve underneath and ruin the entire illusion of the lace. My head hurts.



Can’t I just find a long white blouse that doesn’t require me to wear a long sleeve shirt underneath so that it’s not see-through?

Nope.


And, lastly, this annoying number:

I’ll let you figure out what’s wrong with it.






Tell me some of your experiences when shopping at retail stores that aren’t particularly aimed at the hijabi dress code. I look forward to reading your feedback.